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Exploring different types of love as depicted by the Greeks, and how this relates to classical music

Every heart sings a song incomplete until another heart whispers back.
— Plato, Greek philosopher

In this months blog I’m tackling the complex idea of love and its different forms as categorised by the Greeks.

Within the world of music, opera, and lieder, we are asked to understand and portray all these forms of love. Here is my summation to help you fast-track your research.

By being able to distinguish which type of love you are portraying, you will have a clearer idea of motivation, whether your character is experiencing a deep and powerful reason for the action in the aria, or perhaps a surface and poorly thought out reason.

Do you agree with my different suggestions of opera characters and which are experiencing which type of love? Let me know of any other suggestions in the comments below. Most operas include the tension between Eros and Philia, for instance, and I think sexual passion is probably the main one in most operas!

Eros (sexual passion) - Carmen, Semele, Romeo and Juliette, Turridu for Lola: Cavalleria Rusticana, Manon, La Traviata, La Boheme, probably most operas!

Eros (ἔρως érōs)

(from the Greek deity Eros) is passionate love, with sensual desire and longing. The Greek word erotameans in love. Plato refined his own definition. Although eros is initially felt for a person, with contemplation it becomes an appreciation of the beauty within that person, or even becomes appreciation of beauty itself. Eros helps the soul recall knowledge of beauty and contributes to an understanding of spiritual truth. Lovers and philosophers are all inspired to seek truth by eros. Some translations list it as "love of the body".

Philia (deep friendship) - Nadir and Zurga: Les Pêcheurs de perles, Cosi fan Tutti

Philia (φιλία philía)

dispassionate virtuous love, was a concept addressed and developed by Aristotle in his Nicomachean Ethics Book VIII. It includes loyalty to friends, family, and community, and requires virtue, equality, and familiarity.

Philia is motivated by practical reasons; one or both of the parties benefit from the relationship. It can also mean "love of the mind."

Ludus (playful/flirtatious love) - Papagena/Papageno: Die Zauberflöte, Cherubino: Le nozze di Figaro

Agape (love for everyone, empathetic love) - Violetta: La Traviata

Agape (ἀγάπη agápē)

love in modern-day Greek. The term s'agapo means I love you in Greek.

Referring to a general "pure," ideal type of love, rather than physical attraction suggested by eros. However, there are some examples of agape used to mean the same as eros. Sometimes translated as "love of the soul."

Pragma (longstanding love, committed companionate love) -The Merry Widow,

Storge (unconditional, family love) - Ilia for her family: Idomeneo, Romeo and Tybalt, Nurse for Juliette, Aida

Storge (στοργή storgē)

natural affection, like that felt by parents for offspring

Mania (obsessive love) - Lady Macbeth

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