positive
‘Where you tend a rose, my lad, a thistle cannot grow.’
-Frances Hodgson Burnett, ‘The Secret Garden’ -
In life, it is often said we fall in to one of two camps: optimists and pessimists. You probably already know or have an idea which you are! It’s not entirely the whole truth though, as many of us are a little of both, switching between the two.
In the arts we are often very hard on ourselves, and being self-employed we can feel the loneliness of working by ourselves for long stretches between gigs. I’ve heard of one artist describing success from one in ten auditions - so how do we handle the rejection, knock-backs and self-belief if we work in an industry by ourselves. And why should we be positive? There is a romantic fiction that performers are notoriously depressed, sarcastic and negative off stage…
Firstly, and most importantly, being positive is good for us. It not only makes us feel better, it is good for our health overall in many different ways.
The Benefits of having a Positive Mindset:
Increased lifespan
Better stress management
Lower rate of depression
Better cardiovascular health and reduced risk of death from stroke and cardiovascular disease
Greater resistance to illness
Lower levels of distress and pain
Improved creative thinking
Stronger leadership skills
Have I convinced you yet? It’s a fairly conclusive list. These health benefits would make you better at performing as your body would be better at processing stress and recovering after.
Positive emotions actually widen our span of attention and it also changes our perception and focus on more of the “we” instead of the “me”
(Goleman, 2013. p170)
Well that covers the problems performers can have focussing on our own issues instead of thinking about the bigger picture.
So steps could we take to think more positively in our every day life and our life as performers?
Keep a practise diary and look back on past goals to acknowledge your progress. Slow progress is still progress, and is usually longer ingrained.
Visualize success. Not always winning first prize/the part, but singing your best, feeling connected in the performance, engaging with the audience, portraying your character well.
Being grateful. Maybe there are parts of your work that are hard, but do they allow you to work with great colleagues? Can you work from home and reduce travel away from family? Has a job unexpectedly led to another job that you love - maybe that will happen again?
Make plans. Treat your job like a business and do a full plan assessing where you are, and where you want to go. What are the ways you can get yourself to those end goals? Are there some in-between steps you can take to gain experience? Remember to book a six month assessment into your diary to establish what has worked and what you will change.
Remember past successes. How did that make you feel?
Read stories about the heroes in your industry and their journey to success. There are very few stories of instant/easy success, most artists strived and struggled through difficult times, having to find their way through multiple issues.
Exercise and diet. Ensure you are giving your mind and body the fuel it needs. Find someone to help you with these if it keeps you motivated.
Acknowledge your struggles. Being positive isn’t about pretending and living your life as a lie. Be real, but don’t allow that to pull you down and become your only reality. Deal with your sadness, anger, frustration, and move on.
As ever, these things can be talked about with your teacher and incorporated into your practise routine. If you feel your issues run deeper, seek professional help from a professional. Professional help will be a sound investment in your career and life.
If you have any comments or tips on how you stay positive, feel free to comment below.
